
When you have a moment of bad brain fog/fibro fog, do you tend to have a strong emotion to go with it? I certainly do, and I hear it all the time from other people with fibromyalgia or chronic fatigue syndrome. Some people say they cry, and others talk about getting angry. I tend toward the anger reaction — the worse my brain, the shorter my temper.
It’s normal to be frustrated, embarrassed or angry when your brain misfires, but it seems like a lot of us have a disproportionately strong reaction. A normally strong woman will break down in tears, or a typically even-tempered person will snap at anyone around. When I’m really foggy, I just don’t seem to have the same control over my emotions as when I’m clear headed.
This isn’t the kind of thing researchers look into. Heck, they may not even know about it, but it’s definitely something that effects our lives and our relationships. I can’t count how many times I’ve had to apologize to my husband for an undeserved harsh word. Fortunately, he’s come to understand that when my brain goes haywire my emotions follow. I’m lucky that I work from home, and most of my communication is written — that way, I can’t suddenly lash out at someone and regret it a moment later (especially since it takes me so long to write a coherent sentence when I’m fogged in that my common sense kicks in long before I hit “send.”)
I know that physically, in the brain, pain and emotion are linked in a complex way that researchers are just beginning to understand. I have a feeling that when they really nail down what’s going on with brain fog, it’ll involve the same regions of the brain and/or the same chemical processes that cause our pain amplification and mood issues.
This is an especially tough problem to deal with, because it’s hard to monitor your actions when you’re struggling to find a word, or to remember what a conversation is about, or you’ve misplaced your car in a large parking lot. At those moments, our brains are generally overwhelmed with confusion, fear, anxiety … or with an odd “nothingness” that somehow seems to blot out everything else. Then, without warning, the emotions hit full force. It’s like the censors that usually keep us from saying or doing the wrong thing are completely shorted out.
I think being aware of the tendency is the first step toward improving it. We can try to help the people around us accept that it’s the illness and not us, but that’s sure a lot easier said than done. The best thing is to find things that help clear the fog, but again, that’s not so easy. We do have a lot of things we can try, though, and with luck we’ll find several small things that eventually add up to a big improvement.
You can learn more about brain fog/fibro fog, its symptoms, possible causes, and treatment options, here:
What emotions tend to be connected to your foggy moments? Have you found anything that helps? What are some of the things you’ve said or done during those times? How has this issue impacted your relationships? Leave your comments below!
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Brain Fog & Emotions With Fibromyalgia & Chronic Fatigue Syndrome originally appeared on About.com Fibromyalgia & Chronic Fatigue Syndrome on Monday, April 26th, 2010 at 06:00:14.
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